[feature] Dereference posts more often for up to date replies

[Jasdemi]

Is your feature request related to a problem ?

every time you look at a post, if it hasn't been looked at since ~2hrs, it'll go dereference the thread again to see if there's updates -tobi

It works perfectly fine for older posts, newer posts however are dead despite having multiple replies on the remote instance.
Right now I have to use fedifetcher as the alternative is empty posts. I'd like to get away from it.

Describe the solution you'd like.

Drastically reduce the time to pull updates.

Describe alternatives you've considered.

Let us configure it via config.

Additional context.

No response